We are always late when we are going places here in Italy.
We are late for reservations we make. Sometimes by 15 minutes, sometimes by an hour.
We were an hour late for my appointment to choose a dress. The store called to say that if we weren’t there in 20 minutes, we would have to come a different day. They had another client. Fabio got upset by this! He thought they shouldn’t have taken another client, because that wouldn’t give us enough time. However, I pointed out, if we had arrived on time, we woud have had more than an hour to try dresses.
Last night, we had a restaurant reservation for 8:00. We left the house at 8:10, and arrived at the restaurant aroud 8:30. The couple who owned the pizzeria was happy to see us, and they seemed they could have cared less that we were running late.
I am under the impression that the MOA in Italy is to be late. Maybe the hour we were late for the dress store was too much. But it is telling that they only called when we were actually an hour late, not 15 minutes late or a half hour late.
Last time I was here, we were late for our plane. The plane from Rome to Chicago. Take off was at 9:00 a.m. We left the house at 6:30 a.m. Without traffic, Fabio’s house is 45 minutes from Rome’s airport. But if you thought traffic in Chicago was bad, you ain’t seen nothin’ yet. On this particular day, it only took us one and a half hours to get to the airport. That means that we arrived at the airport at 8:00. For a 9:00 international flight. The counter was empty. They told us we had to run for the plane. We ran to security…where we had to wait in line for 20 minutes. Then, I had to do a passport control, which took another 20 minutes. When we left this 2nd line, after getting from place to place to pace, it was 9:00. And we weren’t at the gate, not to mention on the plane with our seat belts fastened. We ran by some pilots who said to each other °wow. they must be late°. Right. We arrived at the gate, and they shuffled us to bus, which would drive us out to our plane. We got onto the plane, a full half hour late. I walked to my seat covering my face (I HATE being late), and sat down The plane proceeded to take off, and we made it to Chicago on-time. We were lucky they waited for us.
Right now, we are waiting for Fabio’s mom’s friend to come over and cut our hair. She was supposed to be here 20 minutes ago.
She’s here! No discussion about being late. I guess that 20 minutes late by our standards is considered on-time by Italian stadards.
Andrea, being late is really not an universal thing in Italy. Remember there’s a gradient from north to south and you are in Rome.
In the North 5 minutes is considered late. In the middle, 45′ is considered late. In the south there is no late because there is no real appointment time. Usually it works like “When shall we meet tomorrow?” “In the afternoon”. “Great, see you tomorrow”.
no kidding.
Ah-ha! Funny that the same thought process works when trying to catch a plane…
Hi Andrea!!

It’s true: in Italy there’s a gradient for being late and Fabio’s family is more similar to a southern family than a northern one…
Luca for example, is able to being late even about 1,5 hour….
According to him, if you have an appointment at 19, you can start to wash, dress and prepare yourself at 19,10…..
One time (it was the second or the third time we had an appointment) he told me: “I have to go a moment to the toilet, wait me with the engine on”. I waited 30 minutes sat on the motorcicle as an idiot…..
So we have to be patient more and more!!!!!
Have you choose yuor wedding dress?
Have a nice holiday in Italy were everything is in late!!!!
I hope I’ll see you soon! Kisses
If I traveled with Fabio and had to catch planes, I would be on drugs starting early in the morning. I think this is Fabio’s favorite sport—to see how late you can leave and still not miss the plane!
Mom
Dear Andrea,
It’s true, in Italy there’s a gradient to being in late, and Fabio’s family is more similar to a southern family than a northern one…
Luca, for example, is able to be in late even about 2 hours!
According to him, if you have an appointment at 19, you can start to wash, to dress and to prepare yourself even at 19,10…He’s always the last who reach the place of the appointment!
One time (it was the second or the third tie we had an appointment) he told me: “I have to go to the toilet, wait me for a moment with the engine on”. I waited 30 minutes sat on the motorcicle as an idiot….
So we have to be very very patient!!!!
Have you choose the wedding dress and the restaurant menu?
Have a nice holiday in Italy, where everything is in late!
I hope I’ll see you soon!
Kisses
Dear Andrea,
I am happy to know you found the dress! Good job.
I bet is just the way you wanted it.
Yeni